men + loyalty = ?

hye ya'll n salam.. how's ur day/mine is just ok,nothing special..just everyday routine..

men + loyalty =? can we hold to it..i dunno,one said man will always be a man,have u ever heard that most of the man will do betray their relatioship at least one..no matter how good they r. they will be one incident,if not totally fall into 'betrayal' group.it's almost there..

i've read an article wrote by a man (about few years back) he once said women love is much deeper..say if ur men luv u 100% u will luv them back twice,if ur relationship in wreck u will blame the third person first b4 u start to confront ur man,full of luv make u care about ur realtionship n will do whatever to save it eventhough there is a time u aware that ur men was a wrecker.

full of luv cause some of the women choose to give their man more than just a second chances. sometimes u just do ur best to protect ur relationship,to hold it like it was the most fragile thing that need the most x-tra care,there is some case, i means face by certain people that i know,their partner keep playing around,not appreciate their sacrifice,having other relationship behind their back,rather to just let the relationship to go instead of to fix it and the list go on etc..

n that surprise me  a lot that they choose to w8 for these  b******. like there is no more good man they can find.dear please wake up...u r valueavle,u worth more than u think u r,u deserve to have the best after u give the best...just wake up.luv urself,spare some space for urself,yes u do need love cuz its our nature,but do luv urself first b4 u luv others..

love is blind.is it?i don't think so,i do belief love is not blind but it does make people blind.one of my friend just called me this morning,telling 'bout how sad she is that she need to break off the engagement.she found that that her man had other women.just 2 months after they getting married.the thing that make her just can't understand this man is that,she already give a chance to that guy to do a confession about any relationship that he might had before they get engaged,but nothings comes out from his mounth n she found out herself..she almost done with the marriage preparation though..(wish her to be tough,i knew she will) after 12 year relationship this is what she got.. the end is not like what they dream of.i just ask her to forget it,it's not the first time he made it,but i dunno maybe 2 or third time.

i hate to say this but i need to admit boys will always be a boys(i do scare with this fact),so i told her,if her man had done it once,he deserve the second chance,but if after that he done it again,dear just let him go.with this kind of men,they don't deserve  other chance,they don't even know what chances mean n not even know how to appreciate it.

my man had done it once,almost there,had some fishy thing goin on between him n his had - to -be -best - "girlfriend".thank God that i'm able to face it n handle it. u know some women born to be tough with this kind of situation,i'm lucky n praise to Allah that i'm just one of them,what i'm saying is,u know that ur men is wrecker but at the same time u r not pleading them but punish them. i'm fairlady,what u've done to me i'll get u to face it too.sometimes they just need to learn something. my father said that i'm cool hearted.but it doesn't mean that i'm not loving my men,i do love him with all my heart,i admit that i cannot live without him..after all up n down we've been through until what we've been today.there is a lot of memories..but as i said earlier,spare some love for urself.yes i will breakdown if my relationship is fail but with luv to myself,i do believe i can take care of myself.( Ya Allah..please don't let this happen to me..i'm just giving an example..praise you Allah for holding us strong together for this amazing 5 + years..)

i do realise that there is still a women that do betray their relationship but i do belief that the percentage is not that high...(sorry if i'm wrong)

please dear whoever that had to face a problem in their relationship,please learn how to luv urself,i'm not saying that u can't cry u deserve it cuz u've lost something that u keep for so long n u luv the most,u have rite to be sad,u have rite to regret but plaese above all of these put urself as priority,talk to others who can help u,make others tell u how they appreciate u,listen to them when they say u desrve better than that...help others to help urself..there is a lot of good man out there w8n for u somewhre u just don't realize it....

that's all..luv urself first cuz that will lead u to luv others...

12.05 a.m 14.02.09

cik yat.