is it going to last?

how many of u was in a long relationship with ur partner,say for about more than 5 years n it last with both of u get married ? n how many of u that in a long term relationship but at last it does'nt turn out the way that u hope it will be or in more simple word both of u are SPLIT. both go on with life in separated ways..after all the stuff that u've been share together,up n down,tears n joy..

is it waste?ur time,ur love,ur tears,ur effort,ur hope that u give for the sake of ur relationship.....or maybe we can take it as a lesson..to feel hurt..it was just rite cuz u give all u got for it.u have rite to be sad cuz of it..but for the sake of ur future,,u better luv urself first,for that u will love others..to be confident,to feel safe after it,i do belive that was damn hard,,but hey!there is no waste for trying..there is a lot u can do,there is lot u need to care,,n for sure it is just a matter of what Allah,ur god plan for u..it was the best that u can have..that mite be a perfect life after that..nobody knows. life is a journey..full of challange n full of lesson.

i'm not saying for others,but i'm saying this for myself too. i do feel sad if i need to face this..i'll do suffer the major mental breakdown if i need to accept this kind of fact..it just a reaction that ur heart,ur mind n ur body give n respond towards everything that u able to feel with ur heart..

everything that happen is come for a reason.everything that take u backward mite be something that help u to recall thing that u lost......

belive in urself there is something good waiting for u there..............